S&M

BDSM: a short explanation

BDSM is an acronym for a number of different sex activities that are similar but different. The B and D in BDSM stand for Bondage & Discipline, the S and M stand for Sadism & Masochism. BDSM is mainly about role-playing where you look for what you like and find exciting in the field of power relations. So there is someone who is in control (the dom, who is dominant) and someone who surrenders to it (the sub, also called submissive). Which role you take on is just what you like. Maybe you already have an idea, or have tasted it and want to experiment further with BDSM. What many people often forget is that BDSM also contributes to trust within the relationship. Of course you don't always have to take on just one role, you can also easily switch between dominant and submissive. In BDSM terminology this is described as "switch". Read more about BDSM in our blog about bondage toys for beginners.

Bondage and Discipline Sex Toys

BDSM sex toys that belong to bondage and discipline are those where you limit the freedom of movement of the other. The dom is in control and can thus stimulate different senses of the sub. Think of a blindfold, so that the view of the sub is taken away so that other senses are strengthened. You can limit the freedom of movement with the Sportsheets beginners bondage fantasy kit. This bondage set contains 4 soft cuffs that close with Velcro and a mask. You can attach the cuffs to both the wrists and ankles and then tie them to your bed with the long ropes that are attached to the cuffs, for example. The advantage of Velcro on hand-and-ankle cuffs is that it feels safe (especially for beginners), because you can release them in no time. A popular form of restraint is the Shibari bondage rope, which we have available in different sizes and colors.

Sadism and Masochism Sex Toys

The S and the M stand for Sadism and Masochism: SM. The term sadist may sound harsh, but keep in mind that the BDSM sadist is also loving even though he also likes to hurt you a little. The Masochist is the person who likes to receive painful stimuli. Of course, this erotic love game is always based on the consent of both (or more) participants and a "safe word" has been discussed in advance that can be used if you want to stop the actions immediately. The safe-word obviously doesn't just apply to SM, but it's also used for bondage and discipline sex adventures. Popular SM toys are the pinwheel, a penis plug, nipple clamps and electro sex toys.